Mothers Who Don't Scream + Children Who Don't Scream - Hatice Kübra Tongar

Would your mother yell at you and beat you? When I was little, beating, insulting, shouting at children was considered 'normal' parenting behavior. When families did this to their children, they would not have the feelings of regret, remorse, or making up for the mistake that today's mothers experience. Because that was the period of 'who doesn't beat his daughter beats his knee', 'beating is out of heaven'. That's how they learned. Punishment had to be given when the child made a mistake, and the greater the punishment, the better. For example, beating a child meant 'look, this behavior is so wrong, I'm beating you, I'm hurting you so you don't do it again'. The irony of the matter is that when we look back, we remember with tears in our eyes the times when mothers or fathers beat us, shouted, or made us feel humiliated, but we don't remember why they did it—that is, the lesson they wanted to teach. I'm sure you guys feel certain things too: The lesson the parent wanted to teach is forgotten. Only the cold memories of the beatings suffered and the scoldings heard remained. This is exactly what this book was written for. When our children look back after years, so that they feel the warmth of a mother who touches their hearts rather than the coldness of a slap on their cheeks... Then, let's all together We Intended We Intend We Decided on Non-Screaming Motherhood... Hello, my mother, It's me, your baby. Don't say 'I already know who you are'. Because I think we haven't met closely yet. I think you didn't try hard enough to get to know me. If we had met, you would have noticed that when I cried, when I was stubborn, when I was afraid, when I reacted and got angry, I was trying to tell you something. You would focus on the real reason behind them, not on my actions. Then you wouldn't have thought, 'She's doing it to upset me', 'She's just trying to get stubborn with me'... You would feel that there was an innocent need behind every action. Now, I'm leaving this book in your hands so that we can meet you… I know that the more you get to know me, the more you will love me, support my development, and walk together on my life path. And with every aspect you do or lack, I love you very much. More than 100 stocks are available to be sold at the campaign price. The price listed is valid until October 16, 2023.